Here are the list of sexual turn-offs men have always wanted women to know, which I have compiled after some research I have done. Since every human is unique, each man has his own major complaints. If you show this list to your man, I am sure he can find some turn-offs he agrees with, some he disagrees with and some he feels strongly about that aren’t on the list. However, the list I have chosen are the common turn-offs every woman should know.
You will find some of the listed items below have nothing to do with sex. However, these are things women do that end up turning men off to them.
Here goes the list :
1) She acts as if
she doesn’t like sex
She acts as if she is
doing men a favour when she makes love with the man.
She acts embarrassed
when talking about sex.
She makes derogatory
comments about sex.
She is critical of her
boyfriend or husband when he expresses his sexuality, thinking that it is
something “dirty” to talk about.
2) She never initiates
sex
If she never or rarely
initiates the sexual activity in a relationship, he will end up feeling that he
is being controlled, teased and manipulated by her woman. Being the one that
always has to take all the chances, while she is not sharing any of the burden
in taking sexual risks (of being rejected for example), that turns him off.
3) She makes man
responsible for her orgasms
Man does want to help
woman to have orgasm, but they don’t want to feel that they failed when it
doesn’t come to her. They don’t want to feel that they are under pressure for
an “orgasm test”. If she doesn’t ask the man for what she wants, he may feel set
up for a test to see how good he is. A man interprets this as manipulating,
often secretly feels resentful and turns off.
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4) She instructs
him on what to do in bed
She has an idea of how
sex is supposed to work out. She wants to be in control of the love-making
process. She instructs and corrects the partner when he does something wrong,
so as to get the partner to fit into her perfect picture. This totally turns
man off.
5) She is
unresponsive in bed
She just lies there
while you make love to her. No sounds, no movement, no response, nothing. The
man feels that what he is doing is not having any effect at all, like she is
daydreaming, sleeping or waiting for it to be over. It turns man off when the
woman is passive during sex.
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6) She talks too
much in bed
From the minute of
starting make out, she talks and talks, giving a detailed running dialogue of
every single feeling and sensation she is having. When a woman talks so much,
the man will feel obligated to talk and that distracts him from experiencing
the pleasure.
7) She doesn’t take
care of herself well
Man cannot stand woman
who doesn’t take care of her weight and appearance, but complains about her
weight, at the same time stuffing herself with unhealthy diet. Woman with bad
vaginal odour, body odour, unshaved under-arms and legs, bad breath,
“moustaches”, heavy make ups, and unstylish clothing or hair style turns man
off. Man is usually visually turned on, and it is just as easy for him to be
visually turned off.
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8) She is too
serious
She is too serious
about work, relationship, sex, and everything else in her life. Man loves
laughing, fooling around and gets turn off if she gets offended with that
especially during dating or making out. When she makes sex a serious matter,
the man feels nervous, as if he is being tested. Lighten up, woman !
9) She is
excessively needy and clingy
Man gets turn off by
woman who is often very emotional, who cannot make decision for herself, and
gets paranoid when the man look at another woman for a glimpse second, who
blames someone else for her problem, or threatens to kill herself . He will
feel suffocated with her and loses his attraction and sexual desire to her
immediately. Weak, whiny, wimpy woman turns man off.
10) She is
superficial and ignorant
She has no idea about
what is going on in the world around her and spend her time thinking about her
body, face and hair, or latest fashion style. Man feels proud if he can bring
her woman anywhere and introduce her to anyone and she will be able to hold her
own. Undeniably, man likes good looks and nice body, but a woman with great
mind turns him on.
11) She only cares
about man’s financial status
Man gets turn off by
woman who, in the first meet, checks out the kind of car he has, the house he
stays in, the job he has and the designer clothes he is wearing. Man dislikes
being used or evaluated for the amount of money he has. If woman wants man to
love her for what she is and not just the visual appearance, then she must be
willing to do the same for the man.
12) She uses her
sexuality to manipulate man
She treats man like
sexual object; she flirts, teases and comes on to him all the time. Some men
may appear to love it when she behaves that way. She may get the attention she
wants, but he will not respect her, will not take her seriously and probably
laugh at her behind his back.
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13) She is not
sexually spontaneous
She makes such a big
deal each time before making out. She spends half an hour in the bathroom
washing, putting on perfume, body lotion and so on. She set up the bedroom with
candles all over the place and the perfect music. By the time she is ready, the
man’s interest is gone. Sometimes planning is nice, but when overdone with
perfection, it turns man off. Most men like spontaneous sex, it turns them on.
14) She wears ugly
underwear
Man gets turned off if
he finds her wearing underwear like his mother used to wear, the cotton pants
that come up to her waist with thick leg parts on the side. When man finally
gets to undress her woman only to find that she is wearing saggy stretched-out
underpants or bras, or bras that look like chest protectors or oversize or
undersize bra, he will be secretly disappointed. Woman may not realize this,
but man do apparently get turn off by underwear that isn’t up to his standard.
Final Note :
I hope you enjoy
reading this article as much as I enjoyed writing it. I suggest that you ask
your partner to go through the list above and tell you what he thinks about
each turn-off. Then, make a list of your own turn-offs and share with him. Have
fun !
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